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What Could Be: Reflections on Beginning a CM Community by Amy Fiedler

 

When I was first introduced to Charlotte Mason, just over a year ago, it didn’t take much to draw me in.  As I began to consider her philosophy, I found myself letting go of many of the ideas and methods that had previously defined me as an educator.  Despite my degree and my previous training, my beliefs about education began changing, and in turn, began changing me.  In many ways, it was (and still is) a spiritual experience.  I guess one might say I’m a convert of sorts.

As often happens after a conversion experience, I had a hard time keeping quiet.  Charlotte Mason soon became a household name to my family and friends.  Not only was I devouring as much information as I could get my hands on, I was talking about it.  A lot.

I recently heard someone refer to this idea with language that has stuck with me.  Lisa Cadora, in an email to CLUSA educators, expressed her desire to create a space where people could share about “how we are ‘evangelizing’ by connecting with souls in our communities who are hungry for ‘sane’ education.”

As the wife of a pastor and church planter, it’s no surprise that Lisa’s use of the word “evangelize” found a hook on which to hang itself in my mind.  It immediately made me think about the process of starting Water City Church and the reasons we decided to take that path.

First and foremost, we felt called.  Our lives had been transformed by the message of the Gospel and we wanted to share it, to create a space for others to come together and grow, and ultimately be changed by an encounter with Christ.  This calling had led us both to pursue training.  We invested time and energy into studying God’s Word and living it out as best we were able.  Were we experts with all of the answers?  Absolutely not.  But we were willing.

Second, we recognized that we were on a faith journey of our own.  We had not “arrived” by any means.  We were traveling a road, and we wanted to invite others to join us — to walk with us, to grow with us, to be changed with us.  We acknowledged the call to lead, but also the companionship on the walk.

Third, we were inspired.  There was a shared dream and a vision that spurred us on and helped move us forward.  We envisioned what this church could grow to be and how the Lord might use it to reach others with the message of Jesus.

What began six years ago around our dining room table boasted no building, no money, and only a handful of people who agreed to come along for the ride.  But we began.  We started down an uncertain path, determined to see where it led and invite others to walk it with us.  Since, the church has grown, changed and blossomed.  We are thriving as a faith community, and are making an impact for Christ in our local community.

I can’t help but compare this to the journey I’ve been on with Charlotte Mason the past year. Please don’t misinterpret the comparisons I’m making here as my saying that I believe Charlotte Mason to be divine in any way.  I’m simply acknowledging the similarities between two personal experiences — both having led me to a deeper understanding of God’s Truth, of which He is the only source.

My CM “conversion” experience changed me, and caused me to make changes that impacted my children and my family for the better.  I also realized that my children and I wanted — we needed — to continue learning and growing with others who could support and challenge us.  As I searched for a community of like-minded people, I realized the community I was envisioning didn’t (yet) exist.  But I believed it could.

Just like those first dreams about Water City Church, finding the CM community I desired began by gathering people around me.  I started a book study, through which a handful of parents came together to read and discuss Mason’s six volumes.  Next, I simply spoke my dream out loud: “Would any of you be interested in forming a Charlotte Mason co-op?  One where we’d come together with our children and share the responsibility of preparing and teaching different subjects?”  People were interested.  All I did was ask.  From there, we met as a group to flesh out what it would look like to begin this kind of co-op — a living education community.  What was our purpose? What would we call ourselves?  Where would we meet?  How often? What subjects would we cover together?

Again, similar to church planting, we looked to those who had already blazed a trail for some of our inspiration.  I’m so thankful for people like Nancy Kelly (sageparnassus.blogspot.com), Jennifer Stec (cminthebluegrass.weebly.com), and others like them who post and write about what they’re doing in their own CM communities.  They have graciously shared so much and have provided a means for the rest of us to envision “what could be” in our own corners of the world.

Then came the exciting part: the point where we decided to begin.  Did we have a plan in place? Yes, but not perfect. Were the kinks worked out?  Not yet.  We knew that would take time.  Did we all feel an overwhelming sense of confidence in our own abilities?  Were we “Mason experts”?  By no means.  But we were ready to step out and we were committed to a shared vision.

 

Six days from today our CM community, The Arbor Guild*, will gather for the very first time.  We’ll come together at a small, historic schoolhouse in the country — just five families who have chosen more than a curriculum.  We’ve chosen a way of life.  One that we know will be richer when we share it with others.  Will we stumble along the way?  Absolutely.  But we know that in the stepping out, in walking this road together, we will grow as persons, right alongside our children.

 

When something has changed you for the better, when it’s inspired you, when it’s breathed new life into an area that was stagnant, it’s destined to have an impact on those around you.  Have you embraced a Mason education for your children?  Have you been witness to positive change as a result of applying her methods?  Are you in process, seeking to learn more and grow in this way of life?  Are there people around you who are hungry for this “sane education” you’ve discovered?  Why not start talking about it?  Take a risk.  Maybe there’s a dream inside of you, a vision for something that doesn’t yet exist  — something that could be.  Maybe it’s a support group or a book study.  Maybe it’s a co-op.  Maybe it’s a school.  There’s no telling where your journey might lead if you keep walking forward, or how many may come along with you if you just ask them to join you.

*We chose the name “Arbor Guild” after stumbling on the term “plant guild” in a gardening publication about permaculture.  “Guilding” is the act of intentionally placing plants to grow near each other so that they can help to provide for each other’s needs, creating a more healthy community of living organisms and resulting in less work for the farmer.  This seemed like a fitting picture of what we hope to accomplish through our CM community – coming together as unique persons to grow and support each other.

© Amy Fiedler 2013

 

 

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Carroll Smith has spoken on various topics related to Charlotte Mason. Currently he teaches at Gardner-Webb University and enjoys working with children, teachers, college students, and Charlotte Mason Institute. He was a teacher and a principal for 21 years before coming to Gardner-Webb University where he has been for six years. Having grown up in eastern North Carolina, he attended East Carolina University for his undergraduate degree and his master's in school administration. He completed his terminal degree and wrote his dissertation on Charlotte Mason at Virginia Tech. Carroll enjoys reading, gardening, and discussing ideas with friends. He and his wife, Andra, and their two young adult college-age children, Corban and Anna, enjoy living, working and playing in North Carolina.

9 Comments

  1. What a wonderful name! We will be praying for your group of families as you start out on this journey together!

  2. Sheila Bice says

    Thank you for your post, Amy! What a wonderful and inspiring article about a dream. a vision, and stepping forward with it as God has provided the people to join in this adventure of learning more about Charlotte Mason’s educational philosophy together and putting it into practice while you continue to learn!

  3. Amy Fiedler says

    Thank you, Jenn. You are an inspiration to so many. Thanks for all that you share with the online community. We’re so grateful!

    And thank you, Sheila, for all that you’ve contributed to our local CM community here in Wisconsin. Your leadership, insight, and experience have been invaluable.

  4. I just love this, Amy! Welcome to the journey of abundant and delightful living. I’m already looking forward to your reflections along the way.

    • Amy Fiedler says

      Thank you, Nancy. I’m so grateful for your encouragement and support — and thrilled that we’re Midwest neighbors! 🙂

  5. Barbara says

    Thanks for the great article! I just summoned up the courage to try and establish the beginning of a community myself. I’m starting by offering a book study. For over a decade my CM community has only been online. I am looking forward to the possibility of creating one in the flesh. Your article is very encouraging.

    • Amy Fiedler says

      That’s wonderful, Barbara! I’m so glad that you were encouraged you to take that step. May you find many kindred spirits to share in your journey. 🙂

  6. krysti says

    Thank you for the encouragement. I am also starting something up in the fall and am feeling a little overwhelmed today by the logistics of it all. It is always good to hear of success.

    • Amy Fiedler says

      Good for you, Krysti. New endeavors can feel overwhelming at times, that’s for sure. Try to keep it simple while you’re beginning, and enjoy the process of growing together with others along the way. The Lord’s blessings on you as you move forward.

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